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Thanks for hugs and letting me be me
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Lyle Anderson - January 19

Thanks for believing that I really am not Barbar. I can understand folks wanting to believe barbar was stilll alive and well. After all, better anger than grief. But I am not barbar and I surely would appreciate it if we could let this thing go into the past so I can participate in the forum without this rumor sticking in the back of heads. I am worried about that. It may be painful to have to re-live the loss of our dear friend, but please, I am not barbar. I am so sorry. You know, basing the assumption that anybody else was her on just a few similarites is really aproblem. After all, we all have fibro and barbar had fibro. Does that make us all barbar? One of the women who was so upset, the one who had lost some relatives to suicide, said she was from Detroit like me and barbar. Does that make her barbar? Like maybe she was the real barbar and was trying to throw us all off the trail by agreeing the real barbar was Kyle? See how this kind of logic gets you into trouble real quick? Whoever thought barbar had returned in the guise of someone else should have thhought twice about posting it. The first thought should have been WHAT IF I'M WRONG? Just how much hurt and damage if the gues was wrong, and it was, and look at all the hurt and damage. ANd I feel really bad about this, like whenever folks see my name they're going to think I'm a sicko who played at suicide instead of just letting me be who I am and letting a nice lady rest in peace.

 

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