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alivenotliving - March 31

Hi everyone! I have been gone a long time but I am back and doing much better....I think ;) I finally got the courage to leave the fiance and I can now say I am single. Though it is scary, sad at times, and I don't have the best of days yet...things are definitely looking up. Thank you to all of you who helped me come thru this...though you don't know how much of an impact you made...I do...and I weep as I thank you. I know this is best...it's just going to take a little getting used to. I wish you all the best and I thank you for your support XO.

 

kvc33 - March 31

Congratulations for taking this step in your life. I think the fear and sadness comes from thinking that you need a certain person to be happy and get your needs met but the truth is that you don't. Whatever needs he met for you can be filled in other ways. Make that your focus and you will feel good in no time.

 

Fantod - March 31

Awesome! You are a very strong person. I commend you for taking this very difficult step to reclaim yourself and your life. You are going to be just fine. Take care.

 

January - March 31

Congratulations! Now that I'm "old" I can say I have learned this lesson: You can move on from anything and anyone, ESPECIALLY if they treat you badly. How long you grieve is up to you. Meet some new people, get a dog, take a class in something wild, get some counseling (really important, so you don't make the same mistakes!) and take care of Your Beautiful Self.

I WISH somebody had told me this when I was younger and cried for 2 years over losing a bum. I should have had a party! It's OK to be sad, but know that something much better is around the corner for you! I've seen it happen over and over. YAY! : )

 

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