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jrzgirl - May 12

I just needed more stress today, my niece's fiance committed suicide this morning by hanging himself in their back yard, he leaves behind a 2 yr old son. My niece found him after not finding him in the house, sorry about this ot subject but my pain level jumped 200%. He was only 26 yrs old

 

Noca - May 12

I'm so sorry for your loss... I don't think suicide is easy for anyone to handle. Being in so much misery that you believe that ending your own life is the only way out, as well as those who are left behind. I'm totally convinced that this is the worst pain a human being can experience. No need to apologize to us. We are all here for you.

 

moodyme - May 12

Morning, I am so sorry to hear about your loss jrzgirl. Do not apologize. I do not see how it could be off topic, esp. when it affects you & your pain. Are we not all here for one another? I think so. When I found this site, right off I felt as though there were others out there with great understanding & love for us who are suffering. With that being said I will share one of my deepest pains with you. I lost my sister to suicide; she too, hung her self. Her son found her. As noca said, it is the worst pain one can ever go through. Find someone who you can trust & who will love you & let you vent & talk, cry, be angry & what ever other emotion you need to express for as long as it takes you. People will want you to “move” on or “get over it” quickly. But that does not happen, nor is it healthy to shove it all down & not go through the grieving process. My heart goes out to you, your niece, her son, the mama, daddy & siblings that were left behind. May God be with you & your family; & we care here, so stop by when you need to, blessings.

 

toots2889 - May 12

jrzgirl,
Im so sorry for your loss. Should you ever need a friend or someone to vent to, feel free to come on this site and let it loose. Thats what were here for. The good the bad and the ugly. We are here to support each other no matter what is going on in our lives.
Unfortunately, alot of people dont know what to say when something like this happens, or say the wrong thing because they dont understand suicide.
I will pray for you all to get through this together and God Bless you all.

 

jrzgirl - May 12

UPDATE it was her Husband, I forgot they married 2 yrs ago, a very small wedding, before he left for Iraq

 

jrzgirl - May 12

My husband and I are going to PA on Sat for the viewing(it is also her husbands birthday) so he will be buried on Sunday

 

Fantod - May 12

jrzgirl - I was so sorry to read your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time. May you all find peace in the days ahead.

 

fibromite.u.k. - May 13

Hello jrzgirl, I have just read your awful news. I can't even begin to say how my heart goes out to you and your family. What a terrible waste of a young life. I remember a time when I was severely depressed and felt that way myself, now, however, I am horrified to think just how close I was to it. This site seems full of lovely people and although I only joined less than a month ago, it is helping me a lot, so please do feel that you can pour out all your feeling to us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

ptalana - May 13

Oh jrzgirl I'm so sorry for this tragic loss to your family. The loss of a family member is so difficult especially at such a young age. My prayers are with you all, we are always here for you.
All the best, Patty:)

 

jrzgirl - May 13

I want to say thank you to all of you, it means a lot, he would have been 26 on Sat, so my niece changed the funeral to Mon and Tues, she could not have it on his birthday.I still have not broken down yet but my sister is a wreck so I am trying to be strong for her, letting her cry over the phone and just listening, she lives in PA, so I may be staying over night, my husband is going up with me on Monday but if I stay , he will drive back to NJ and then back up to PA on Tues. It will be a full Military funeral.oxoxoxo to all of you

 

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