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Just Got Court Date
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toots2889 - August 25

Well its been along wait but the time is finally approaching. I just recieved my court date for social security disability. Its November 16th and even though I am happy to have the date, im also very scared. What happens if they deny me? My boys and I cant make it if I dont get it. If anyone has any advise for me as far as when i go to court id be glad to hear it.

 

Fantod - August 26

Wishing you the very best of luck on your court date. This process should not be so complicated and take so long.

 

wolffin - August 27

Hope yo uhave best of luck thoughts and prayers are with you

 

ptalana - August 27

Good luck with your claim for disability, let us know how it turns out. I can totally relate as I have been waiting since December to hear anything from the government, and haven't been paid since October. Being broke doesn't even come close to my financial situation now!!!!
I hope you have a good attorney to help you with your case.
Take care
Patty

 

pfiinch - August 30

This very seriuos REMEMBER THIS IS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.Make sure you take someone with you and do not trust ayone except your gut and do not let them make you feel like crap.They will put you though the ringer,You need to be relaxed and most of all convinet in your gut feelings.SSI will most likely try and deny you the 1st try and maybe 3 times .Don't give up! If you have a lawyer listen very carefully and hoping you have someone you can totally trust freind or family member that actual knows something about SSI.When dealing with them you will have so many forms,but that is what a lawyer and his assitant is for.You just have to make sure you have Dr. Medical records,MRI any test that you have had the more you know the better shot at not having to do this more than once.
My Dear Pain Freind May God be with you and Pray all the time and an easy Pray God knows what you need he just wants you to tell him and trust in him completely.Honor Your HEAVENLY FATHER AND HE WILL HONOR YOU. God is you best freind if you are not a Christian he knows you that you love him as the higher being.You go girl and be happy and trust and faith with the Higher Bbeing see you through whatever your need is.Be patient my freind for this is not the end.Did not mean to preach just a reassurance.LET US ALL KNOW I FOR ONE WILL BE WATCHING AND BE PATIENT MYSELF. TAKE CARE AND REST AND EAT AND ANY LITTLE YOGA OR EXCERSISE THAT YOU CAN.

 

toots2889 - August 31

Thanks for the posts and support. You know it really helps knowing that you have people pulling for you. Theres just alot riding on this for me.
If Im denied this time, theres gonna have to be some changes made. I have struggled and fought for along time but wont be able to hang on any longer if denied. My husband and I are seperated, and I have our two sons living with me in our house. Im no longer going to be able to keep living in the house should I get denied, as I cant afford it anymore. My boys dont want to move and will want to remain in the home with their dad should I have to move. This would totally devastate me. I dont know what id do without my boys. Sorry to just dump all this on here, just needed to release. I pray daily that the outcome will be in my favor. God Bless you all and thanks again for being there.

 

pfiinch - August 31

toost2889 I am praying for all of us everyday.Just stay in there.It sounds like everthing is just creeping in you.I could not even imagine your situation.Hopefully your boys will understand.May I suggest that you have your husband and son plus anyone around read Our Forum.Then maybe they will begin to understand a little.People just don't understand us and as we don't understand this illness ourselves.Just as many people read the Bible yet, they really don't understand what they have read.Have them imagine that they are sinking in a boat and have no where to turn Ask them what they would do for that is how we feel.So when you pray for your SSI to come in pray that the ones around can begin to understand.When you pray for others things begin to happen for you.We get so caught up in ourselves with this illness that what forget that we don't understand how they feel not being able to understand.So the bottom line is we all are confused.
It sounds like you are letting this illness take over your whole life.PLEASE DEAR FREIND DON'T LET IT WIN.YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!!Please don't let it take over your life.I don't know where live,but find a spot you can go and remember when you were good in life and remember you still are just as good if not better for you are able to trick your mind and even if for a hour you get releif it is worth it because your Gods child just put him as # 1 always and you will see things in a better way.The littlest thing of good will become GIGANTIC.
DO YOU HAVE A FAMILY MEMBER OR FREIND YOU CAN MOVE IN WITH? Is this your home in forclosure?File bankruptcy 100.00 down will retain you a lawyer and they can possiable save your home.I think if you pay on your home as much as possiable you can remain in your home.But remember God or the higher being is watching and knows if you are being honest.When he see this that you are doing your good deeds and being trusting and having faith in him and only him you will see small miracles, but you have to stay faithful and trusting him always not just for this SSI thing.You will be rewarded.The holy spirit is an amazing feeling.
Sorry I don't mean to be ministering you I just feel your pain and just go to Mathew 1-40 on the
on googel or search and choose which bible one you want I like the Bible Gateway I hope that is the right verse it is on faith and rewards.If it isn't it still is rewarding in your mind.
You have time to begin and stay faithful .I will pray for your family and husband to return even if it is as a freind.This will be worth the effort you give.It is all up to you and God and your Dr. in the mean time stay with us.Oh and don't be surprised your date may change for the better it could comes sooner or later.Either way it will be for the best.JUST PLEASE PLEASE STAY WITH US EVEN IT IS ON THE BOARD EVERYDAY THIS FORUM IS THE GREAT GIFT TO HELP US TO EXPRESS OURSELVES.
HEY DON'T FEEL BAD I AM AT WORK AND A CO-WORKER WAS BEING INSULTING ABOUT THIS ILLNESS TO ME AND I BEGAN TO CRY BECAUSE THE LAST FEW DAYS I FELT LIKE I WANTED TO JUST GIVE IN TOO.I HAVE ENOUGH PILLS TO DO IT ,BUT WOULD NEVER DO IT FOR TO MANY WOULD SUFFER AND HELL IS NOT WERE I WANT TO GO.I MEAN I WOULD THEN I WOULD BE BURNING ALL THE TIME AND EVERY WHERE.KEEP POSTING AND I WILL WATCH HAVE A GREAT AND BETTER (NEW LIFE ) FOR YOU ARE A WINNER JUST ASK YOUR FAMILY and tell them you need some exta loving today.God Bless You and YOURS Patti F.

 

axxie - September 2

Toots2889, I am glad you have your court date, just remember we are all rooting for you.

Make sure when you go, and start answering questions, that you take your time and if you can't remember, ask for time to look over your file, so that you can reply.

Remember, you have the power, don't let anyone bully you in answering a question if you don't know. Just say, I need clarification, because I'm confused with what you are asking me.

You go girl, give them hell, I will say a prayer for you to win. Good Luck

 

toots2889 - September 2

You guys are the BEST!!! I walk up this morning feeling depressed and blue. I came on the sight and read the posts and started to cry, but it was a good cry. It was so nice to see how you all care for me and what happens to me and you dont even know me. You guys truly are my fibro-angels looking out for me and supporting me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making today a better day for me.

 

solanadelfina - September 3

(Hug.) That's what we're all here for. I'll say a prayer for you tonight that it works out well for you. Please keep us posted on how well it goes for you.

 

pfiinch - September 5

I just applied on line and because I stil work it says I would not be a candidate.So if you are seeking school or working it will be a challenge.But don't worry because it will take time and patient.I just know you will get it even if it takes time you will win in the end.

God Bless
Let the father above help you.
dear Lord I come before on this day and pray that you will not allow this to be a challenge and bring my freind to get her SSI As our heavenly and loyal Father we ask that you calm our and pain and anxiety blessing you name father you are made of to create a mircle here Thank you our Savior and Father for our trust and faith is in you Blessed is your name Jesus Christ my savior and father

Amen

 

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