Hi Dahlia, Welcome to the forum, we aim to help, but we are not doctors. No need to panick, I know it's scarry to have fibro and not know what is happening to you. But no need to panick it's time for you to get better. First of all, the pain you are experience is what it is. Everyone feels the pain differently and right now, the way I read your email, I think you are both exhausted, therefore lack of sleep and feeling the anxiety of the what the hell is wrong with me.
You mentioned that you have stopped your medication, that is a no.no. I do not know what medication you are on, but trust me, if they were prescribed to you, there's is a reason. Two you need some sleep, probably some of the medication you were prescribed is for sleep?
I understand your frustration, but your husband, will be there for you. Explain to him, you do not know what is going on with my body, but I feel really bad that I'm so sick, but with time, I"m sure things will get better. As for sex, well, everyone is different, it's the least of your problems at the moment, your husband should after all understand.
As for dietary, there is a few things you should do for yourself. no coffee, teas, or colas, eat wholesome foods, be careful or try to eliminate all processed meat. A glass of wine, may help you to relax, but you may be surprised, that you hurt more the next day, because of the histamine in red wine. So if you have this common problem, take your allergy medication.
Take a hot shower or a hot bath, this help wonders for your body and mind. Take it easy, you can't do everything at the same time. So choose one task, if it means to play with your kids, then you do that, kids are resilient, but they also need personal interaction with their parents.
As for cleaning and doing all the chores, heck some days it works and other days it just doesn't except the fact, there will be days where it just won't happen. You may even want to do a game with the kids, who picks up the most in there bedrooms, or lets go play in the tv room and the one who picks up most toys. (I'm sure you get the picture on this one).
As for a blood test for fibro, there is not any, fibro is diagnosed by a list of symptoms and tender points and source of elimination.
As for having your liver enzime elevated, so is half the population, it could mean nothing, if you happpen to be very skinny your enzime of your liver will be higher because your liver happens to hit the wall of your body. If you happen to be fat, expect have your liver enzime to be higher, if you don't eat well, meaning you eat alot of fat in your diet, your liver enzime will be high, depending on what medication you were on, or on, expect your liver enzime to be high. If your doctor is not concern, let it go.
Take it easy, look at what fibro is, and remember, the weather, what you eat, don't eat, and if you stress yourself will all give you more pain.
If you are interested, you should have a complete multi-vitamin, take with your breakfast, as for taking other vitamins, I would just give you advice to take a fish oil and E formula.
Good luck my dear, and do write to tell us, what medication you were prescribe, I'm sure lots of others will be able to give you other advice.