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I have read that chronic pain has a lot to do with short term memory loss and then, of course, there's fibrofog. How do I explain to my husband that I'm not out to get him, it's the fibro causing memory loss?? He suffers from emotional problems from his childhood, and this is causing so much trouble between us, that I'm so afraid our marriage is coming to an end. We love each other more than I can say, but, between his problems and my illness, it's just not working. I'm at my wit's end. I do not want to lose him, but, I don't want to drive him crazy anymore either. Any ideas would be so greatly appreciated.